“By fighting you never get enough, but by yielding you get more than expected.” ~ Dale Carnegie.
At times we are struggling and fighting, creating more resistance in an effort to gain some ground.
Sometimes, if we take a step back, examine the situation and reflect we can see a better way.
Where is the resistance coming from?
Is there a better way?
What alternative are there?
Can we let this go? Allow things just to happen without interference?
What middle ground is there?
Do we really need to fight this?
Emotions block our thinking.
Emotions lead us to say things we may not mean, that hurt others, damage relationships and create more resistance.
Could yielding get you more of what you want?