“Nurture your mind with great thoughts, for you will never go higher than you think.” ~ Benjamin Disraeli.
Believing in self, goal setting and having high expectations has been key for me.
If you don’t think you can manage something you don’t commit and you won’t try.
If you convince yourself that something is doable, if you commit, work hard and give it an honest go, chances of it happening increase.
At times I have struggled trying to tell myself that I am resilient and capable enough to deal with really difficult situations where I have had very little control.
All I can do at those times is tell myself that no matter what happens I can deal with this. Even if the outcome is the worst, even if things get really bad, then no matter what I will still be fine. I will get by, I will make this life wonderful.
It’s not always easy in situations where there is little control and influence.
I like to problem solve. I’m a fixer. And I don’t like not being able to fix things.
Watch your thoughts. Be careful what you think. Support yourself. Encourage yourself. Love yourself well.